4 Simple Rules

to beat social media and mobile addiction

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These rules are so easy

there's no way to f4ck it up

4 simple rules to beat addiction to mobile phones and social networking sites.

1. No Social Media

This doesn’t mean you can’t be social. In fact, the idea is to be more social. Instead of relying on digital communication, actually get out there and talk to people, go out for coffee and connect at a personal level. No Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Google+, Tinder, Tumblr, Grinder, Pinterest etc etc

2. No Games

Love playing games on your mobile? Me too. But...It fills the gaps in your time. Like when you are early for a meeting or waiting in line for the bus. Use that time to think, contemplate your life or connect with your wife, kids, friends and family, heck...even strangers.

3. Set Times

This is simple. During work hours 8-5 use email on your mobile if needed, but it would be better to actually call people rather than revert to email or social media. Outside of these hours and on the weekends your phone has two applications. Text and Voice.

4. Put it down and find alternatives

Is your Mobile phone starting to run all the interactions with your friends and family? Do you check it constantly and feel a little buzz when there is a message, an email, a like or a notification. Find alternatives to get that same buzz or feeling. Simple things, real things, like the sun on your face, eating an orange or laughing with your friends and family.

Make a promise to yourself

If there’s an app on your phone that you just can’t live without, there is a very good chance that humans lived for a really long time without it, so put your mobile phone down and use your brain and find an alternative. It's going to be hard but you can beat addiction to mobile devices.

The Symptoms of A Mobile / Social Media Addict

If these sound like you, take the 30 day challange.

You use your mobile at the dinner table when sitting with guests or family

Feeling a buzz when a new email, notification or message comes in

You answer calls or look at messages when driving

Checking your phone for messages or notifications even if there’s no noise

You use your mobile on the toilet

A compulsion to check your phone constantly

Hearing a notification or text message and not being able to <em>not check</em> your mobile

Texting while having sex (yes, people have done it!)

You take your device in the shower

Freaking the f4ck out if you can’t find your mobile

Your phone is never more than 5 meters away from you at all times

Feeling phantom vibrations and notification noises

Looking at your screen when people are talking to you

Its the first thing and last thing you check in your day

You use it when you’re bored, angry, sad or tired

You suffer from depression or anxiety